EVERY TIME she "does business" OFF the potty, say
a stern "NO!" and leave her on the potty 5 min. Stay to make sure she
doesn't leave. This stops her from fun time when she "messes up". LET HER SEE
YOU "GO POTTY AND REWARD YOURSELF" (Ex: read a Devotional, magazine article,
call a friend...) When she "does business" ON the potty PRAISE her "Yes, that's right, you did it..." then DO SOMETHING SHE
ENJOYS WITH HER. Positive attention outweighs negative attention, which is
better to her than "not enough attention". People can never get enough
attention. J Gray
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